This blog was inspired by a single word in a FetLife message from a submissive. He’d made an effort to write a polite and intelligent message, enquiring as to whether we might continue our correspondence and see if we had any D/s chemistry. Before I could reply, he’d returned with another message, acknowledging that he’d... Continue Reading →
How I met sissy amanda – D/s fairytales do come true
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Looks unimportant
Why serving me comes before showing me your face A lot of sissies don’t have face pics online, even when they are serious about seeking a Dominant to serve. Does this mean they fall at the first hurdle when trying to attract a Domme? Not in my case. When I’m conversing with a sissy who... Continue Reading →
Why am I a Domme and what do I love about it?
Two questions from my sissy, dephie, inspired this article. Two deceptively simple questions, asked on a long Fetlife message, where delphie had been thinking about psychology and life. This is what she said. “Going back to psychology though, delphie wondered why it is that You love being a Domme. delphie read Your fantastic post on... Continue Reading →
Chastity vs chastity device
I believe in the power of sissy chastity. As a Domme, owning and controlling my sissy’s clitty is a satisfying state and an arousing pastime. I like the symbolism of a chastity device. I like rattling my fingernails against the hard shell of the cage while sissy’s clitty tries to get hard inside. I like... Continue Reading →
Pink panty week
Chatting with @sissyamanda on Kik about a Victoria's Secret panty sale on a Sunday afternoon led to a fun plan for the week ahead.