Sissy advice column – sissy klara

I get all kinds of messages in my FetLife inbox, but I felt this one was worth sharing. It was a politely written request for advice from @SissyKlara. (I have her consent to publish her message, her ID and her photos.) Many of klara's questions and worries were similar to those I'd heard from other... Continue Reading →

Dommes get hurt too

D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self.  Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past.  But sometimes, not.  I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →

Are we being ‘kink silenced’?

Pornhub hit the headlines again a couple of weeks ago, when they removed 10 million videos overnight. The main reason for this - protecting victims of child abuse, human trafficking and revenge porn. No one is going to argue with this. This content should never have been posted in the first place.  But it doesn’t... Continue Reading →

sissy delphie in pink

This is a different post for me - fewer words, more visual stimulation. I get so many gorgeous pics from my sissies, I'm keen to share them. They show alternative gender and sexual expression, and my idea of what I find sexually enticing. Transformation and feminisation really push my buttons. This is sissy delphie, dressed... Continue Reading →

No bull

Last week, I had a message from a sissy, asking if they could be Dommed by me then "have your bull fuck both of us.”  The implication in this message is... a female Dominant needs a bull, I’m supposed to lower myself to sissy’s level - being banged by the bull as my ultimate pleasure...and... Continue Reading →

Looks unimportant

Why serving me comes before showing me your face A lot of sissies don’t have face pics online, even when they are serious about seeking a Dominant to serve. Does this mean they fall at the first hurdle when trying to attract a Domme? Not in my case. When I’m conversing with a sissy who... Continue Reading →

Why am I a Domme and what do I love about it?

Two questions from my sissy, dephie, inspired this article. Two deceptively simple questions, asked on a long Fetlife message, where delphie had been thinking about psychology and life. This is what she said. “Going back to psychology though, delphie wondered why it is that You love being a Domme. delphie read Your fantastic post on... Continue Reading →

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