‘Hey sissy’ – erotic name-calling

I love verbal humiliation. It’s like gifting pain. When you have a sissy who craves a tongue lashing, it’s a powerful play within the D/s dynamic. Ripping someone to shreds verbally can be a deeply erotic experience, both as the ‘bully’ and the ‘victim’. I use those quotes deliberately. Every harsh word I hit someone... Continue Reading →

Things I’ve learnt – and not being ‘a man’ by sissy jessie

Sissy jessie opens up about her D/s relationship with Mistress Virago. “It got me thinking about the elements she’s brought into my ‘in real life’ persona. As she says – sissification isn’t just about sashaying into a pretty dress – it’s a lot about learning, and translating what she teaches and reinforces in me.”

Slowgasm/Nogasm – a sissy’s tale

Today, I’m revisiting the ‘slowgasm/nogasm’ style of sissy release that I wrote about recently. After I put that article out, I was lucky enough to have a sissy from Fetlife comment on my post. I’m keeping their identity a secret at their request. So, for this, I’m calling them ‘sissy april’. Sissy april generously offered... Continue Reading →

An unsafe place for sissies

We all know certain regions of the world face challenging circumstances around human rights due to regimes and religious beliefs. And these issues tend to be discussed with a ‘big picture’ perspective. Kink/BDSM certainly doesn’t feature. But within that ‘big picture’, there are individuals, who are impacted daily by the prevailing culture. And this was... Continue Reading →

9 types of sissy orgasm

I’ve always been fascinated with sexual potential. In my early teens, I was reading Cosmo and some very adult novels (A Glimpse of Stocking is one I recall fondly) all of which gleefully educated me that I (as the owner of female sex organs) was a multi-orgasmic being, capable of intense, prolonged sexual pleasure, clitoral... Continue Reading →

Sissy advice column – sissy klara

I get all kinds of messages in my FetLife inbox, but I felt this one was worth sharing. It was a politely written request for advice from @SissyKlara. (I have her consent to publish her message, her ID and her photos.) Many of klara's questions and worries were similar to those I'd heard from other... Continue Reading →

Dommes get hurt too

D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self.  Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past.  But sometimes, not.  I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →

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