Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos.
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Before ‘power exchange’ comes ‘effort exchange’ I had a brief exchange of messages with a would-be sub on Fetlife a while back that highlighted a very important factor in D/s relationships. And it’s particularly valid for sissies who are looking to attract a lifestyle Dominant. And that’s the idea of ‘equal effort’. This is how... Continue Reading →
Sissy privileges, such as clitty stroking and pussy toys, need to be earned. As an owned sissy, you don't just indulge whenever you feel like it. Your Mistress decides when you deserve to pleasure yourself, and what form that should take. This is a typical exchange between me and @sissyamanda. I usually permit her privileges... Continue Reading →
I’d been missing my contact with my devoted sissy amanda. (Usually, she’s a regular visitor in my house, serving every few weeks.) So, I messaged her and told her to be ready for a cam session at 2pm. My orders: Dress to please me - stockings, bra, panties, pretty dress and heels. Collect the following... Continue Reading →
Two questions from my sissy, dephie, inspired this article. Two deceptively simple questions, asked on a long Fetlife message, where delphie had been thinking about psychology and life. This is what she said. “Going back to psychology though, delphie wondered why it is that You love being a Domme. delphie read Your fantastic post on... Continue Reading →
As a Domme, I love seeing a sissy in panties. And I like showing them off. Panties aren't just the defining symbol of sissiness. When worn on my order, it's an act of submission and devotion from my sissy. And it thrills me. This is sissy amanda, obeying me by wearing (and tweeting) a week... Continue Reading →
I’m a Dominant. And I move in BDSM spaces. If a submissive wishes to approach me in these spaces, then I expect them to acknowledge my status and message me in an appropriate way. I know that a lot of Dominant women don’t want to be addressed as ‘Mistress’ by someone they’ve never heard from... Continue Reading →
My sissy, jessie, often surprises me with an unexpected D/s treat. This time it was a short story sent via Kik. (I'm sure she was hard as she wrote it.) The door slams open and in walks Mistress, dressed in total ‘fuck me’ gear. Heels, tiny dress, sizzling, beautiful flesh everywhere. Looking legitimately stunning (you... Continue Reading →
What not to do to attract a lifestyle Mistress. A one-line message. Asking for attention. Poor punctuation. And rounding off with an emoji...when you’re 37 years old. *sigh* Possibly a contender for the most mistakes in the the fewest words. And when I went back a few days later, guess what? He'd gone. *rolling my... Continue Reading →
