D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self. Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past. But sometimes, not. I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →
Why am I a Domme and what do I love about it?
Two questions from my sissy, dephie, inspired this article. Two deceptively simple questions, asked on a long Fetlife message, where delphie had been thinking about psychology and life. This is what she said. “Going back to psychology though, delphie wondered why it is that You love being a Domme. delphie read Your fantastic post on... Continue Reading →
Written protocol – right from the first word
I’m a Dominant. And I move in BDSM spaces. If a submissive wishes to approach me in these spaces, then I expect them to acknowledge my status and message me in an appropriate way. I know that a lot of Dominant women don’t want to be addressed as ‘Mistress’ by someone they’ve never heard from... Continue Reading →