Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos from a lifestyle FemDom and sissy owner – Mistress Virago.
My D/s novel - The Element of Shame by M Virago - is available to buy on Amazon. It's a wicked riot of female domination, feminisation, sissification, erotic humiliation, domestic discipline, bondage, pain play and more.
I love verbal humiliation. It’s like gifting pain. When you have a sissy who craves a tongue lashing, it’s a powerful play within the D/s dynamic. Ripping someone to shreds verbally can be a deeply erotic experience, both as the ‘bully’ and the ‘victim’. I use those quotes deliberately. Every harsh word I hit someone... Continue Reading →
Sissy jessie opens up about her D/s relationship with Mistress Virago. “It got me thinking about the elements she’s brought into my ‘in real life’ persona. As she says – sissification isn’t just about sashaying into a pretty dress – it’s a lot about learning, and translating what she teaches and reinforces in me.”
We all know certain regions of the world face challenging circumstances around human rights due to regimes and religious beliefs. And these issues tend to be discussed with a ‘big picture’ perspective. Kink/BDSM certainly doesn’t feature. But within that ‘big picture’, there are individuals, who are impacted daily by the prevailing culture. And this was... Continue Reading →
[I’ve held this blog back to see how things would play out, but it was written in the midst of the turmoil, on Friday night, while I’m still feeling played and let down.] So, my last 24 hours have been unexpected. A sissy I’ve been conversing with, someone with whom I believed I had built... Continue Reading →
D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self. Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past. But sometimes, not. I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →
I usually set tasks and permissions on WhatsApp, where only me and my sissy can see them. But today, my D/s side is feeling devilish, so I'm publishing @sissy_delphie's instructions for a sissy release here instead..."Hello delphie" where everyone can see them...which should make her blush, as lots of people will know exactly what she's... Continue Reading →
This is a different post for me - fewer words, more visual stimulation. I get so many gorgeous pics from my sissies, I'm keen to share them. They show alternative gender and sexual expression, and my idea of what I find sexually enticing. Transformation and feminisation really push my buttons. This is sissy delphie, dressed... Continue Reading →
I've had some very thoughtful responses from sissies about FemDoms taking male titles. I wanted to share them as everyone's views on this topic are highly personal, and when those feelings relate to kink, it gets interesting. On FetLife, the short responses I got were mostly, 'Yes, it's hot'. Comments included 'It makes me feel... Continue Reading →
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
