Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos from a lifestyle FemDom and sissy owner – Mistress Virago.
[I’ve held this blog back to see how things would play out, but it was written in the midst of the turmoil, on Friday night, while I’m still feeling played and let down.] So, my last 24 hours have been unexpected. A sissy I’ve been conversing with, someone with whom I believed I had built... Continue Reading →
D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self. Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past. But sometimes, not. I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →
I usually set tasks and permissions on WhatsApp, where only me and my sissy can see them. But today, my D/s side is feeling devilish, so I'm publishing @sissy_delphie's instructions for a sissy release here instead..."Hello delphie" where everyone can see them...which should make her blush, as lots of people will know exactly what she's... Continue Reading →
This is a different post for me - fewer words, more visual stimulation. I get so many gorgeous pics from my sissies, I'm keen to share them. They show alternative gender and sexual expression, and my idea of what I find sexually enticing. Transformation and feminisation really push my buttons. This is sissy delphie, dressed... Continue Reading →
I've had some very thoughtful responses from sissies about FemDoms taking male titles. I wanted to share them as everyone's views on this topic are highly personal, and when those feelings relate to kink, it gets interesting. On FetLife, the short responses I got were mostly, 'Yes, it's hot'. Comments included 'It makes me feel... Continue Reading →
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
There are a lot of secrets about sexual pleasure. One of the greatest for sissies is that you can learn to orgasm without your clitty ejaculating. And once you achieve this, the orgasms you can experience are mindblowing. Why I find sissygasms deeply erotic For me as a Dominant, sissygasms are the pinnacle of sissy... Continue Reading →
Why serving me comes before showing me your face A lot of sissies don’t have face pics online, even when they are serious about seeking a Dominant to serve. Does this mean they fall at the first hurdle when trying to attract a Domme? Not in my case. When I’m conversing with a sissy who... Continue Reading →
Before ‘power exchange’ comes ‘effort exchange’ I had a brief exchange of messages with a would-be sub on Fetlife a while back that highlighted a very important factor in D/s relationships. And it’s particularly valid for sissies who are looking to attract a lifestyle Dominant. And that’s the idea of ‘equal effort’. This is how... Continue Reading →
Sissy privileges, such as clitty stroking and pussy toys, need to be earned. As an owned sissy, you don't just indulge whenever you feel like it. Your Mistress decides when you deserve to pleasure yourself, and what form that should take. This is a typical exchange between me and @sissyamanda. I usually permit her privileges... Continue Reading →
