Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos.
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Fetlife is my favourite place online. I follow all sorts of groups. Some for education. Some for entertainment. Some for kinky, ‘let’s-get-wet’ thrills. It’s not often that something stops me in my tracks, and even rarer when it’s a ‘sub seeks Dominant’ ad. But one ad stopped me and made me read every word. And... Continue Reading →
You have every right to identity as a sissy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Lately, I’ve noticed quite a bit of backlash from parts of the trans community against those identifying as sissies, against the idea of ‘sissy’ as a gender identity and against the word ‘sissy’ itself. As a non-binary trans person, I... Continue Reading →
Before ‘power exchange’ comes ‘effort exchange’ I had a brief exchange of messages with a would-be sub on Fetlife a while back that highlighted a very important factor in D/s relationships. And it’s particularly valid for sissies who are looking to attract a lifestyle Dominant. And that’s the idea of ‘equal effort’. This is how... Continue Reading →
Sissy privileges, such as clitty stroking and pussy toys, need to be earned. As an owned sissy, you don't just indulge whenever you feel like it. Your Mistress decides when you deserve to pleasure yourself, and what form that should take. This is a typical exchange between me and @sissyamanda. I usually permit her privileges... Continue Reading →
I’d been missing my contact with my devoted sissy amanda. (Usually, she’s a regular visitor in my house, serving every few weeks.) So, I messaged her and told her to be ready for a cam session at 2pm. My orders: Dress to please me - stockings, bra, panties, pretty dress and heels. Collect the following... Continue Reading →
Two questions from my sissy, dephie, inspired this article. Two deceptively simple questions, asked on a long Fetlife message, where delphie had been thinking about psychology and life. This is what she said. “Going back to psychology though, delphie wondered why it is that You love being a Domme. delphie read Your fantastic post on... Continue Reading →
I believe in the power of chastity. As a Domme, owning and controlling my sissy’s clitty is a satisfying state and an arousing pastime. I like the symbolism of a chastity device. I like rattling my fingernails against the hard shell of the cage while sissy’s clitty tries to get hard inside. I like how... Continue Reading →
Chatting with @sissyamanda on Kik about a Victoria's Secret panty sale on a Sunday afternoon led to a fun plan for the week ahead.
My sissy, jessie, often surprises me with an unexpected D/s treat. This time it was a short story sent via Kik. (I'm sure she was hard as she wrote it.) The door slams open and in walks Mistress, dressed in total ‘fuck me’ gear. Heels, tiny dress, sizzling, beautiful flesh everywhere. Looking legitimately stunning (you... Continue Reading →
