Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos from a lifestyle FemDom and sissy owner – Mistress Virago.
My D/s novel - The Element of Shame by M Virago - is available to buy on Amazon. It's a wicked riot of female domination, feminisation, sissification, erotic humiliation, domestic discipline, bondage, pain play and more.
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I love verbal humiliation. It’s like gifting pain. When you have a sissy who craves a tongue lashing, it’s a powerful play within the D/s dynamic. Ripping someone to shreds verbally can be a deeply erotic experience, both as the ‘bully’ and the ‘victim’. I use those quotes deliberately. Every harsh word I hit someone... Continue Reading →
I've had some very thoughtful responses from sissies about FemDoms taking male titles. I wanted to share them as everyone's views on this topic are highly personal, and when those feelings relate to kink, it gets interesting. On FetLife, the short responses I got were mostly, 'Yes, it's hot'. Comments included 'It makes me feel... Continue Reading →
I read a post on Twitter a few weeks ago which said, “Where can I find a woman to call Daddy?” It made me smile. It was posted by a non-binary person with sissy leanings, so I understood the meaning. But it also sparked a lot of thoughts for me. Would this wistful sissy ever... Continue Reading →
Last week, I had a message from a sissy, asking if they could be Dommed by me then "have your bull fuck both of us.” The implication in this message is... a female Dominant needs a bull, I’m supposed to lower myself to sissy’s level - being banged by the bull as my ultimate pleasure...and... Continue Reading →
This blog was inspired by a single word in a FetLife message from a submissive. He’d made an effort to write a polite and intelligent message, enquiring as to whether we might continue our correspondence and see if we had any D/s chemistry. Before I could reply, he’d returned with another message, acknowledging that he’d... Continue Reading →
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Fetlife is my favourite place online. I follow all sorts of groups. Some for education. Some for entertainment. Some for kinky, ‘let’s-get-wet’ thrills. It’s not often that something stops me in my tracks, and even rarer when it’s a ‘sub seeks Dominant’ ad. But one ad stopped me and made me read every word. And... Continue Reading →
You have every right to identity as a sissy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Lately, I’ve noticed quite a bit of backlash from parts of the trans community against those identifying as sissies, against the idea of ‘sissy’ as a gender identity and against the word ‘sissy’ itself. As a non-binary trans person, I... Continue Reading →
