Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos from a lifestyle FemDom and sissy owner – Mistress Virago.
I’ve always been fascinated with sexual potential. In my early teens, I was reading Cosmo and some very adult novels (A Glimpse of Stocking is one I recall fondly) all of which gleefully educated me that I (as the owner of female sex organs) was a multi-orgasmic being, capable of intense, prolonged sexual pleasure, clitoral... Continue Reading →
This is a different post for me - fewer words, more visual stimulation. I get so many gorgeous pics from my sissies, I'm keen to share them. They show alternative gender and sexual expression, and my idea of what I find sexually enticing. Transformation and feminisation really push my buttons. This is sissy delphie, dressed... Continue Reading →
I read a post on Twitter a few weeks ago which said, “Where can I find a woman to call Daddy?” It made me smile. It was posted by a non-binary person with sissy leanings, so I understood the meaning. But it also sparked a lot of thoughts for me. Would this wistful sissy ever... Continue Reading →
Last week, I had a message from a sissy, asking if they could be Dommed by me then "have your bull fuck both of us.” The implication in this message is... a female Dominant needs a bull, I’m supposed to lower myself to sissy’s level - being banged by the bull as my ultimate pleasure...and... Continue Reading →
This blog was inspired by a single word in a FetLife message from a submissive. He’d made an effort to write a polite and intelligent message, enquiring as to whether we might continue our correspondence and see if we had any D/s chemistry. Before I could reply, he’d returned with another message, acknowledging that he’d... Continue Reading →
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Why serving me comes before showing me your face A lot of sissies don’t have face pics online, even when they are serious about seeking a Dominant to serve. Does this mean they fall at the first hurdle when trying to attract a Domme? Not in my case. When I’m conversing with a sissy who... Continue Reading →
Fetlife is my favourite place online. I follow all sorts of groups. Some for education. Some for entertainment. Some for kinky, ‘let’s-get-wet’ thrills. It’s not often that something stops me in my tracks, and even rarer when it’s a ‘sub seeks Dominant’ ad. But one ad stopped me and made me read every word. And... Continue Reading →
Ah the wonderful life of a secret sissy. Continually beset by thoughts of kink and all the peals of seductive pain/pleasure it brings – but having/wanting to maintain a vanilla façade. It’s a tough life, though one I suitably adore at the moment. Since splitting up with my first wife and talking to Mistress very... Continue Reading →
Before ‘power exchange’ comes ‘effort exchange’ I had a brief exchange of messages with a would-be sub on Fetlife a while back that highlighted a very important factor in D/s relationships. And it’s particularly valid for sissies who are looking to attract a lifestyle Dominant. And that’s the idea of ‘equal effort’. This is how... Continue Reading →
