Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos.
Over ten years ago, sissy amanda tiptoed into my tweets...earned my collar and changed my life. This is the story of how our amazing D/s connection came into being, written by amanda. I ordered her to write it because I want to preserve the details forever, and I wanted her to tell me her side... Continue Reading →
Why serving me comes before showing me your face A lot of sissies don’t have face pics online, even when they are serious about seeking a Dominant to serve. Does this mean they fall at the first hurdle when trying to attract a Domme? Not in my case. When I’m conversing with a sissy who... Continue Reading →
Fetlife is my favourite place online. I follow all sorts of groups. Some for education. Some for entertainment. Some for kinky, ‘let’s-get-wet’ thrills. It’s not often that something stops me in my tracks, and even rarer when it’s a ‘sub seeks Dominant’ ad. But one ad stopped me and made me read every word. And... Continue Reading →
Ah the wonderful life of a secret sissy. Continually beset by thoughts of kink and all the peals of seductive pain/pleasure it brings – but having/wanting to maintain a vanilla façade. It’s a tough life, though one I suitably adore at the moment. Since splitting up with my first wife and talking to Mistress very... Continue Reading →
Before ‘power exchange’ comes ‘effort exchange’ I had a brief exchange of messages with a would-be sub on Fetlife a while back that highlighted a very important factor in D/s relationships. And it’s particularly valid for sissies who are looking to attract a lifestyle Dominant. And that’s the idea of ‘equal effort’. This is how... Continue Reading →
Sissy privileges, such as clitty stroking and pussy toys, need to be earned. As an owned sissy, you don't just indulge whenever you feel like it. Your Mistress decides when you deserve to pleasure yourself, and what form that should take. This is a typical exchange between me and @sissyamanda. I usually permit her privileges... Continue Reading →
I’d been missing my contact with my devoted sissy amanda. (Usually, she’s a regular visitor in my house, serving every few weeks.) So, I messaged her and told her to be ready for a cam session at 2pm. My orders: Dress to please me - stockings, bra, panties, pretty dress and heels. Collect the following... Continue Reading →
What not to do to attract a lifestyle Mistress. A one-line message. Asking for attention. Poor punctuation. And rounding off with an emoji...when you’re 37 years old. *sigh* Possibly a contender for the most mistakes in the the fewest words. And when I went back a few days later, guess what? He'd gone. *rolling my... Continue Reading →
