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How a sissy gets to be considered by a Mistress
‘Hey sissy’ – erotic name-calling
I love verbal humiliation. It’s like gifting pain. When you have a sissy who craves a tongue lashing, it’s a powerful play within the D/s dynamic. Ripping someone to shreds verbally can be a deeply erotic experience, both as the ‘bully’ and the ‘victim’. I use those quotes deliberately. Every harsh word I hit someone... Continue Reading →
Things I’ve learnt – and not being ‘a man’ by sissy jessie
Sissy jessie opens up about her D/s relationship with Mistress Virago. “It got me thinking about the elements she’s brought into my ‘in real life’ persona. As she says – sissification isn’t just about sashaying into a pretty dress – it’s a lot about learning, and translating what she teaches and reinforces in me.”
An unsafe place for sissies
We all know certain regions of the world face challenging circumstances around human rights due to regimes and religious beliefs. And these issues tend to be discussed with a ‘big picture’ perspective. Kink/BDSM certainly doesn’t feature. But within that ‘big picture’, there are individuals, who are impacted daily by the prevailing culture. And this was... Continue Reading →
When you fuck up as a sub, don’t run
[I’ve held this blog back to see how things would play out, but it was written in the midst of the turmoil, on Friday night, while I’m still feeling played and let down.] So, my last 24 hours have been unexpected. A sissy I’ve been conversing with, someone with whom I believed I had built... Continue Reading →
Dommes get hurt too
D/s relationships aren’t always easy. Like any relationship, there are ups and downs. Life doesn’t always give the Dominant or the submissive a level playing field from which to be their best kinky self. Usually, the hiccups along the way are short-lived and quickly moved past. But sometimes, not. I’ve read quite a few pieces... Continue Reading →
Humiliating cummie for sissy delphie
I usually set tasks and permissions on WhatsApp, where only me and my sissy can see them. But today, my D/s side is feeling devilish, so I'm publishing @sissy_delphie's instructions for a sissy release here instead..."Hello delphie" where everyone can see them...which should make her blush, as lots of people will know exactly what she's... Continue Reading →
sissy delphie in pink
This is a different post for me - fewer words, more visual stimulation. I get so many gorgeous pics from my sissies, I'm keen to share them. They show alternative gender and sexual expression, and my idea of what I find sexually enticing. Transformation and feminisation really push my buttons. This is sissy delphie, dressed... Continue Reading →
No bull
Last week, I had a message from a sissy, asking if they could be Dommed by me then "have your bull fuck both of us.” The implication in this message is... a female Dominant needs a bull, I’m supposed to lower myself to sissy’s level - being banged by the bull as my ultimate pleasure...and... Continue Reading →
From male sub to sissy – a change of mindset
This blog was inspired by a single word in a FetLife message from a submissive. He’d made an effort to write a polite and intelligent message, enquiring as to whether we might continue our correspondence and see if we had any D/s chemistry. Before I could reply, he’d returned with another message, acknowledging that he’d... Continue Reading →
